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Crash landing on saturday night
by stella_jones @ 29/04/2008 - 12:35:29

so the 'i love you' wasn't real, he's worried he can't settle down south if he's seeing me, he thinks he wants a fresh start, he's been thinking this since before he moved down, he didn't want to tell me because i am always so happy that he didn't want to upset me.

on the other hand he'd like to be proved wrong and see what happens, without my knowledge he's asked his friends who are getting married in italy in july if i can come as his plus one, i am the only one who can put up with him, i am invited to meet his parents at an event in three weeks' time, he wants to see if it can work out.

he was crying again. i know what you're going to say because i'm saying it myself "the boy is confused he doesn't know what he wants, walk away, if he can say these things to you he doesn't want to be with you". please don't tell me this because i don't want to hear it right now but in the spirit of keeping this blog real and truthful i had to give you an update.

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sidejumpsidejump [Member]
29/04/08 @ 13:10

that is real tough. I feel for you. If you feel he is worth it, then hang on in there for a bit longer. Love will find a way.

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29/04/08 @ 13:21

I hope it all works out for you, its a tough time for you both at the moment but you never know what the future can hold, either way we are here for you :)

*hugs*

silentplanetsilentplanet [Member]
29/04/08 @ 14:03

We need some troubled time in life to know when the good good ones come and be truly happy. Hang in there Kid-o. Arm wresteling usually cheers me up.

LifeBeginsLifeBegins [Member]
30/04/08 @ 07:12

I agree with the other comments, hang in there, wait and see xx

phoenix2kphoenix2k [Member]
01/05/08 @ 06:33

You never know!! And your right, it is definitely a bad week for all of us by the looks of things! Stay strong babe xx

strangewaysstrangeways [Member]
02/05/08 @ 22:28

Hmmm. Wait and see up to a point. Too long and you risk becoming a doormat. The more you write "Please Wipe Your Feet" or "Welcome" all over yourself, the less attractive you are to him - or anyone (unless they're fresh out of doormats).

I can talk, having laid myself at my ex-lover's feet for the last four months (metaphorically, you understand - not enough room in our office for a literal human doormat)

Keep yourself busy, keep yourself honest, try and keep yourself happy - but not by relying on him to cheer you up. Best of luck.

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