When it comes to decisions, relationship decisions, do you let yourself be guided by your head or your heart?
What about when you have had a bitter previous experience, and now you see the warning signs that similar might happen again, and your head knows that if you follow your heart, you are most very likely going to get burned by the flames?
What about when you have met someone unlike anyone you have ever met before, he kissed you and it took your breath away, and you are sick and tired of having been on your own for the last three years?
What if he comes with strings attached?
What do you do?
SeasideMan
Pro

The heart must lead, but the head should get the casting vote. If the head lead, there would be nothing ventured and hence nothing to gain. When the heart leads, there is the chance of true greatness.
Tom.