Questioning myself

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• • lucreziaborgia ^Pro
  • 02/10/2008 @ 16:40:07

  Because you are a woman, and despite everything, it's a good thing to be. What's the point of having a heart if you don't use it? xLux

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  • • stella_jones
    • 03/10/2008 @ 13:31:07

    What is the point indeed. Great comment and made me pause for thought, thanks

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• • deleted user (Visitor)
  • 02/10/2008 @ 20:11:45

  it is sad, but yes, we women are like that. It always gets to us, especially if we have sex with them

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  • • lucreziaborgia ^Pro
    • 02/10/2008 @ 20:54:27

    ...And that's a crucial point.

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• • whoknows
  • 03/10/2008 @ 09:57:35

  Probably more because you are human than because of your gender.
  
  There are some men (and some women) who are like that: they like the chase but aren't actually interested in the catch. Before Steve I was (or wasn't) in a relationship with K, who was typical of the breed. Every time I responded to his advances he'd back off. When I backed off, there he'd be, worming his way back in.
  
  After me and Steve got together, K got together with my best friend, and did the same to her, but bigger time. They had a 'proper' relationship with sex and everything: he begged her to meet his kids, then when they had introduced their families to eachother he finished it because she was 'getting too serious and involving their children.' Then texted her again a few days after she'd stopped contacting him.
  
  You could be like my mate and waste your time on your version of K, but please don't. I know how they get to you, because they keep on giving you hope, and seem to be such nice guys, and so reasonable while they're letting you down gently with their (in fact spurious) reasons for not wanting to be with you.
  
  I'd take the transparently arseholish any day!

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• • phoenix2k
  • 08/10/2008 @ 16:56:21

  can i ask, as I havent been on for a while, is this the guy that moved down south? x

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  • • stella_jones
    • 14/10/2008 @ 11:08:23

    Nooo! That was J, he went south, split with me then I discovered he's been playing away! Naughty boy. It's all on here I think if you fancy catching up.
    
    This new one is T. I think I am falling for him even though I am trying to be sensible!

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