what I'm doing wrong
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whoknows
- 07/05/2009 @ 06:39:25
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As we don't know what you are doing, we can't really offer any comment.
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stella_jones
- 07/05/2009 @ 09:19:55
Fair point! I was having a bit of a 'moment' last night, given I am on my third redundancy at 26 I just want to feel settled and was wondering how it had all come to this.
Still feeling a bit miserable today in fact...
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miramaze
- 07/05/2009 @ 11:15:49
Who says you are doing anything " wrong" ?
What if , what you are doing were exactly right and all you needed to do is to see it from a different perspective ?
Awareness leads to choice
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stella_jones
- 07/05/2009 @ 13:43:55
I'm intrigued by this, and would be prepared to try it, but how could you see three redundancies in the space of five years from a different perspective? From my current viewpoint it's unsettled, disruptive, stressful, uncertain etc...
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miramaze
- 07/05/2009 @ 13:54:53
I don't doubt that you feel all of that ... unsettled , disrupted , uncertain , stressful .....I would feel that too.
Still, anything that repeats like that must mean something. A cry for attention.
These events could be seen as a need for change of direction ... a nudge ....something has to go for something better to take its place .....
By making yourself " wrong" you are only adding to your grief. It would make more sense to ask say ...hmmm now that's odd.. what could I do differently ? ....what is it that I really want and don't dare to ask ?
( does that help ? )
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Hmmm, now that would depend. Unless you're leaving the lid off the blender, or not locking the back door at night, probably nothing ;-)