Maybe it's not worth the effort. Maybe I should just leave them where they are now, unidentified people in the past, not important enough to be worth spending any time or effort over! more…
I have discovered that if you don't go beyond fifty characters andwriteyourtagslikethis you can go beyond the five word limit and have the fun of causing your tag readers eye strain!
Hey dude. Just came across your blog while doing an internet search.
I am still in love with me ex. He split up with me because he wanted 'some space.' In that time, everytime I saw him he was with a different girl. Now he is seeing someone properly. She looks just like me.
Don't think I can give any decent advise because right now I w more…
you know what you must do. You recognise the pattern as well. You have to love yourself and know your own worth. If he can't be a man, then you should finish with him, and find yourself a real man.
he is mean because he is not yet mature enough to handle a real relationship. more…
There has been in house talk of a Cull within the relief teams of one of the world’s largest catering companies for sometime.
Operations Managers have suggested to people that they know well and have been in touch with etc that they take on more “Full Time Roll’s” before they more…
If you looked it's because somewhere inside you knew you needed to. If I were you, I'd confess and ask him about it. What he's been doing isn't right - I mean, why's he even emailing when he's supposed to be spending the night with you?
But I'm a bit off men at the moment, and so might not have the best advice. more…
Yaaaaay! I'm sure something will come up jobwise. It can be disheartening, but stick at it. Dunno what your job centre is like, but they can be more use than you think - I got my job from an ad they phoned me about - I'd applied and got the job by the time it appeared in the trade mag. Good luck! more…
I'm intrigued by this, and would be prepared to try it, but how could you see three redundancies in the space of five years from a different perspective? From my current viewpoint it's unsettled, disruptive, stressful, uncertain etc... more…
Fair point! I was having a bit of a 'moment' last night, given I am on my third redundancy at 26 I just want to feel settled and was wondering how it had all come to this.
Still feeling a bit miserable today in fact... :( more…
You can't turn off feelings for someone, nor should you. Having someone in your life and you being in theirs helps make you the person you become. Time and space do dim the feelings and ensure they turn into fondness rather than love or passion - if this didn't happen you would turn into a stalker or a serial killer! Rest assured that one day so more…
I sometimes wonder if it is the nature of the beast. On/Off switches with boys and no dimmer.
The radio silence is so hard to handle! Boys think it is the best thing so that they don't keep going over old ground feeling more guilt-ridden. Us girls just want the truth and honesty. more…
Recent comments (30)
In response to: "2 years of blogging, and..." 5 days old
by stella_jones [Member]
Maybe it's not worth the effort. Maybe I should just leave them where they are now, unidentified people in the past, not important enough to be worth spending any time or effort over! more…
In response to: "2 years of blogging, and..." 6 days old
by Old-Nick Pro
Is it worth the effort?
I have discovered that if you don't go beyond fifty characters andwriteyourtagslikethis you can go beyond the five word limit and have the fun of causing your tag readers eye strain!
:) more…
In response to: "Some thoughts" 52 days old
by BanterNotIncluded [Member]
That's funny - actually made me laugh out loud "I miss having a wage!
I think I miss the wage more than I miss him"
Thanks x more…
In response to: "He's seeing someone else!" 66 days old
by Pepaski [Visitor]
Hey dude. Just came across your blog while doing an internet search.
I am still in love with me ex. He split up with me because he wanted 'some space.' In that time, everytime I saw him he was with a different girl. Now he is seeing someone properly. She looks just like me.
Don't think I can give any decent advise because right now I w more…
In response to: "Some thoughts" 85 days old
by stella_jones [Member]
It is when it's been five years.... more…
In response to: "Some thoughts" 85 days old
by Old-Nick Pro
Maybe a bit of both.
Being single is not all bad is it? more…
In response to: "Uncovering secrets" 85 days old
by stella_jones [Member]
'seems like he's into you'... ahhh if only that had been true! more…
In response to: "What do you do?" 107 days old
by sidejump [Member]
you know what you must do. You recognise the pattern as well. You have to love yourself and know your own worth. If he can't be a man, then you should finish with him, and find yourself a real man.
he is mean because he is not yet mature enough to handle a real relationship. more…
In response to: "3 redundancies in 5 years?" 119 days old
by A Evans [Visitor]
The Compass Group and Compass Direct.
There has been in house talk of a Cull within the relief teams of one of the world’s largest catering companies for sometime.
Operations Managers have suggested to people that they know well and have been in touch with etc that they take on more “Full Time Roll’s” before they more…
In response to: "Never mix business with pleasure they say..." 120 days old
by Old-Nick Pro
And never mix cement with a stick of celery..... more…
In response to: "Never mix business with pleasure they say..." 120 days old
by idontknowwhy [Member]
but when you mix pleasue with business you get prostitution :)) more…
In response to: "Never mix business with pleasure they say..." 120 days old
by sidejump [Member]
absolutely, it gets way too complicated more…
In response to: "Tension" 126 days old
by whoknows [Member]
You poor thing. What a horrible situation.
I hope things work out for you more…
In response to: "Uncovering secrets" 127 days old
by whoknows [Member]
If you looked it's because somewhere inside you knew you needed to. If I were you, I'd confess and ask him about it. What he's been doing isn't right - I mean, why's he even emailing when he's supposed to be spending the night with you?
But I'm a bit off men at the moment, and so might not have the best advice. more…
In response to: "Uncovering secrets" 127 days old
by Rampage team
Maybe he's just amusing himself. There are better ways to amuse yourself, but it could just be out of interest that he's doing it.
Still, if you poke through someone's email account, you're clearly just looking for something to hurt you. Especially if you keep looking.
I'd keep an eye out, but bearing in mind what you've s more…
In response to: "When one door shuts..." 175 days old
by whoknows [Member]
Yaaaaay! I'm sure something will come up jobwise. It can be disheartening, but stick at it. Dunno what your job centre is like, but they can be more use than you think - I got my job from an ad they phoned me about - I'd applied and got the job by the time it appeared in the trade mag. Good luck! more…
In response to: "When one door shuts..." 175 days old
by Old-Nick Pro
Sounds good.
I hope it all lasts for you.
:) more…
In response to: "When one door shuts..." 176 days old
by lucreziaborgia Pro
I sighed romantically and sent you a silent good wish, my friend. You thoroughly deserve it. Enjoy. x more…
In response to: "I just want to know" 188 days old
by miramaze [Member]
I don't doubt that you feel all of that ... unsettled , disrupted , uncertain , stressful .....I would feel that too.
Still, anything that repeats like that must mean something. A cry for attention.
These events could be seen as a need for change of direction ... a nudge ....something has to go for something better to t more…
In response to: "I just want to know" 188 days old
by stella_jones [Member]
I'm intrigued by this, and would be prepared to try it, but how could you see three redundancies in the space of five years from a different perspective? From my current viewpoint it's unsettled, disruptive, stressful, uncertain etc... more…
In response to: "I just want to know" 189 days old
by miramaze [Member]
Who says you are doing anything " wrong" ?
What if , what you are doing were exactly right and all you needed to do is to see it from a different perspective ?
Awareness leads to choice :)
X more…
In response to: "I just want to know" 189 days old
by Old-Nick Pro
Well look at it this way, you're 26...20 years younger than me. That must be something to feel greatful for.
;)
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In response to: "I just want to know" 189 days old
by stella_jones [Member]
Fair point! I was having a bit of a 'moment' last night, given I am on my third redundancy at 26 I just want to feel settled and was wondering how it had all come to this.
Still feeling a bit miserable today in fact... :( more…
In response to: "I just want to know" 189 days old
by Old-Nick Pro
As we don't know what you are doing, we can't really offer any comment.
:) more…
In response to: "I just want to know" 189 days old
by whoknows [Member]
Hmmm, now that would depend. Unless you're leaving the lid off the blender, or not locking the back door at night, probably nothing ;-) more…
In response to: "From hero to zero" 198 days old
by brokendownangel Pro
You can't turn off feelings for someone, nor should you. Having someone in your life and you being in theirs helps make you the person you become. Time and space do dim the feelings and ensure they turn into fondness rather than love or passion - if this didn't happen you would turn into a stalker or a serial killer! Rest assured that one day so more…
In response to: "From hero to zero" 219 days old
by Mel [Visitor]
I sometimes wonder if it is the nature of the beast. On/Off switches with boys and no dimmer.
The radio silence is so hard to handle! Boys think it is the best thing so that they don't keep going over old ground feeling more guilt-ridden. Us girls just want the truth and honesty. more…
In response to: "Answer: obviously not" 219 days old
by Mel [Visitor]
It's not you! Boys!! x more…
In response to: "Answer: obviously not" 224 days old
by katie1159 [Member]
Nothing is wrong with you.
Big hug xxxxx more…
In response to: "Answer: obviously not" 225 days old
by sidejump [Member]
really sorry to hear that. maybe he will come round, or at least explain what his problem is more…